6/13/2023 0 Comments Venus trine neptune![]() ![]() If I'm in a relationship and something shiny and pretty goes walking by, the grass I'm standing in just got 5 shades duller.īut not only does this aspect imply that you may be decieved, but also that you may be the deciever. ![]() Venus doesn't like commitment and Neptune loves glamour, thus the infidelity. And when I am in a relationship, I wish I wasn't. When I'm not in a relationship, I wish I was. With this aspect, the grass is totally always greener on the other side. You're just idealistic and trying to find something that isn't there. So you'll get a 6th, and that person won't be what you want either. You could have 5 partners, but none of them will be what you want, and you don't know why. Score 1 for me.īut to answer your question, I don't think this aspect is accompanied by a pathological need for multiple partners moreso a desire for something that you are unaware of. When I was younger, I cheated on this guy I was going out with I cheated on him with a girl. I've read that Venus/Neptune aspects are like being attracted to a shadow, or sometimes even having confusion in what gender you're attracted to. It's all very fascinating.įleetingDasein, I'm a Libra with Venus squared Neptune and I very much live this square. Then again it depends on the signs involved, etc. I think the infidelity comes from wanting to live that romantic fantasy. Then there's the danger of putting the people you love in a pedestal, only to be disappointed when you finally see them for what they are, and realizing nobody can live up to your high standards. Nobody ever lives up to your unrealistic expectations, so you are constantly seeking out the person who does. I also find that there is a lot of fantasizing going on with this aspect: waiting for your knight in shining armor, and being open to the possibility of throwing everything away to go live some kind of far-fetched adventure. I guess the aspect has to do more with self-deception in love, than deceiving other people. My venus is very badly aspected, so that might be why I am experiencing this aspect this way. My chart is in the "Read My Chart" thread if you want to take a look. I'm guessing it's Jupiter getting in the mix, somehow. There are no aspects between my Venus and Mars. ![]() My Neptune trines Jupiter, squares my Asc, and conjuncts my midheaven. Go figure!ĭo any of you have this placement, and if so, are you prone to infidelity and self-deception? How do you deal with the disruptive impulses? Have any of you ever dated someone with this placement, and if so, how did they behave? Would you avoid dating someone with this aspect? I was in a relationship with someone with this aspect a few years ago, and they ended up cheating on me, so I broke it off. So my question is: Is this aspect always accompanied by a pathological need for multiple partners? Is there an upside to this aspect? The negative Venus/Neptune aspects cloud reason, and it takes a great deal of self-control not to act on those impulses. Neptune 's favorite saying seems to be: The grass is always greener on the other side. I still feel there is a need, a longing, even in a committed relationship, for something else. I've definitely gotten better at dealing with this aspect, but it is an ongoing struggle. I'm not proud of it, but behavior like this is quite common in people with this aspect. I'm not only talking about cheating, but also things like withholding information, lying about past relationships, misrepresenting yourself, etc. When I love someone, I give myself completely, body and soul, and yet, I've been somewhat deceitful in relationships in the past. Venus Square Neptune makes me feel as if every relationship is fated. My Venus in Libra in the 7th has made me very dependent on relationships. My Venus is in domicile: in Libra in my 7th house. I'm a Pisces rising, so Neptune rules my chart. I've always felt this aspect rather strongly. Lately, I've been thinking a lot about Venus/Neptune aspects, and the propensity of a native with this placement to be deceitful, at best, and unfaithful, at the very worst. I'm sure this has been discussed plenty of times, but I'm looking for a fresh perspective. ![]()
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